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NEWSLETTER MAY 2008

GROWING SEEDS OF PEACE – SPRING UPDATE FROM EIN BUSTAN

Avner Matsliah Honoch writes: Dear Friends and supporters, Spring is here, and already we can feel the summer approaching, and with it, the end of the school year. The children are growing before our astonished eyes: they always seem to be growing up faster than we expect them to.

The kindergarten is growing more beautiful at it’s own inner pace. Towards the end of February we all got together to renew the kindergarten physically. Each family took responsibility for a small aspect of the job, and with the guidance of the teachers we made many improvements that had been waiting all winter: the gate now has a spring and closing mechanism that two of the fathers invented. A ground covering of fine gravel was laid under the swings, the wooden playhouse was painted, and the ladder to its second story was reinforced. Tree trunks now line the path on either side, and the children choose to jump from one to the next rather than walking on the path - a joyful activity that tends to slows down the parents who are rushing off to work…The storeroom and yard were tidied, and objects of no worth were discarded. A clear roof covering was put up over the sandbox, so that it may be used even on rainy days. A beautiful mural now welcomes all who enter the kindergarten. The outside sink, the one hands are washed in after playing with mud and sand, has been upgraded and finally connected to the sewer (I did that! My first experience at plumbing …). A few of the mothers made coffee and cakes, some of them made sure we had an excellent lunch, and thus a day of work was transformed into a day of many short conversations, play with the children (who with their own hands and small pails conveyed the gravel from the large sack to the play yard), and a reunion with families from years past and meetings with those who may join our kindergarten in the future.

Days passed, the wheat is growing taller and already possesses kernels. This, in fact, happened of its own accord (aside from the sowing of the seeds, of course) with the help of the sun and rain and the expecting looks of the children. They sprout the seeds and compare with each other whose leaves are growing at a quicker pace. Soon, they will harvest the wheat, and then sift it, grind it, and use the flour to bake flat bread in the mud brick oven. The oven itself will be built from bricks they themselves manufactured just this week, that are presently drying in the sun.

It seems that there are those things that happen of their own accord, and our purpose is to observe and internalize them into our beings, while there are other matters that are dependent on our will and actions.

At times I wonder to what extent our children need to be guided in their growth, and what measure of freedom will enable them to grow simply, as nature intended. When I observe the teachers, I can see the beauty of the balance between the two things. It is no simple thing: on the one hand - to take action, and on the other - to let events take their own course. This inner work that the teachers do so successfully inspires admiration.

In addition to working together, there are additional opportunities for the parents to experience the bi-cultural meeting of cultures that the kindergarten offers the children every day. We celebrated the Moslem holiday of Eid El Adha together. We watched a puppet show put on by the teachers, on the subject of “Giving”. We then walked around a model of the “Kaba”, the holy black stone that is found in Saudia, imitating the custom of the pilgrims to Mekka on this day. On Tu B’shvat, the Jewish Arbor Day or birthday of the trees, the children planted a tree together in the yard of one of the children that lives in the village, near the kindergarten. On Purim, the children dressed up according to their childhood fantasies, which knew no limits of religion, race or nationality. Leopards, lions, princesses, fairies, Spiderman, Peter Pan and Snow White…

Aside from joint holiday celebrations, the most enjoyable opportunity for the meeting of the two cultures are the informal daily encounters that occur with no great fanfare when we visit in each other’s houses - thanks to the friendships that are developing between our children. Normal afternoon visits.

But it is difficult to define these as bi-cultural encounters. These are simply social visits. And perhaps this is actually the true realization of the goal: that things will happen by themselves, in a natural manner. Like the growth of the wheat after it has been sowed.

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Ein-Bustan has been nominated as a PJC Kol Nidre Appeal 2008 beneficiary.